Tell me more please! Do you really feel like solving every problem presented to you, or do you prefer some class of problems? For example, those problems for which you already know the solutions?
Oh no, my pitiful brain must at least make the effort with every single problem, even if I know that I don’t immediately have a solution, I will try and find a solution, or try to find someone who would know the solution. I have certain family members that take so much advantage of me in this that I actually don’t answer their calls anymore because every time we talk, I end up down a new rabbit hole to solve a problem that doesn’t affect me in any conceivable way, so I had to start setting boundaries or else I would give myself burnout.
Oh, you would seem to be perfectly normal in some countries! For example, here in Mari-El Republic about ¼ of people are like you. I guess the more extreme weather conditions in winter and the less population density goes, the more people tend to solve each other problems just the moment the problem is presented.
I really-really like to give a helping hand to my neighbors here, because it goes cooperative way and it is very-very satisfying. There are people who would try to take advantage too, but as I grew here, I have seen others establish boundaries so I’ve learned to do the same, even towards certain members in my family.
I’m saying there are places on this Earth you would feel you belong to, so please do not treat yourself as pitiful because of your “to the bone” tendency to solve others people problems.
I can imagine a machine shop like this:
– Is it ready?
– Sorry, I’m still fixing it.
– Fixing? It just needed an oil and spark plugs change!
– Well, one leads to another, I’ve checked cylynder compression and… The engine is now disassembled. And the transmission. And the braking system too.
– What?!
– Good news! The multimedia system is now working fine! Did you notice your left front speaker was connected wrong polarity?
– Oh, no! No way!..
Hockey exists in this world, confirmed?
As a people pleasing neurodivergent nerd who has to fix every problem presented to me, I feel her lack of control to the depths of my pitiful soul.
Tell me more please! Do you really feel like solving every problem presented to you, or do you prefer some class of problems? For example, those problems for which you already know the solutions?
Oh no, my pitiful brain must at least make the effort with every single problem, even if I know that I don’t immediately have a solution, I will try and find a solution, or try to find someone who would know the solution. I have certain family members that take so much advantage of me in this that I actually don’t answer their calls anymore because every time we talk, I end up down a new rabbit hole to solve a problem that doesn’t affect me in any conceivable way, so I had to start setting boundaries or else I would give myself burnout.
Oh, you would seem to be perfectly normal in some countries! For example, here in Mari-El Republic about ¼ of people are like you. I guess the more extreme weather conditions in winter and the less population density goes, the more people tend to solve each other problems just the moment the problem is presented.
I really-really like to give a helping hand to my neighbors here, because it goes cooperative way and it is very-very satisfying. There are people who would try to take advantage too, but as I grew here, I have seen others establish boundaries so I’ve learned to do the same, even towards certain members in my family.
I’m saying there are places on this Earth you would feel you belong to, so please do not treat yourself as pitiful because of your “to the bone” tendency to solve others people problems.
I was right. That was interesting! Poor li’l mustelid…
I think she is letting her memories flood into her thinking space and that makes her mind blurt out the objects in her memories.
Poor thing, she seems so earnest and willing. You’ll get it, sweetie, Fen will see to that.
Yeah, she is truly the most “analytical” type!
Hot damn she’s every mans dream girl… One stop machine shop lol
I can imagine a machine shop like this:
– Is it ready?
– Sorry, I’m still fixing it.
– Fixing? It just needed an oil and spark plugs change!
– Well, one leads to another, I’ve checked cylynder compression and… The engine is now disassembled. And the transmission. And the braking system too.
– What?!
– Good news! The multimedia system is now working fine! Did you notice your left front speaker was connected wrong polarity?
– Oh, no! No way!..
That sounds more like a mechanical shop but that’s my bad I wanted it to sound more like a tool shop
“I swear I’ll go get just one screwdriver, and I shall know no other purchases!”
Does that sounds like a man facing a one stop tool shop?
Can Fen make tools too? I mean she can use hadalen too, right?
Right!
https://www.feretta.net/comic/a-tale-of-tails-2-25/